Long silence

For a long time, I have been keeping quite. To be honest, life is so full of unfortunate events, that I have decided that remain silent is the best thing to do.

One person just walked out of my life completely.. well, it does not really matter what this person has done, but at least give me opportunity to retrieve my stuff.. those important ones at least.

I wonder why when people are interviewing jobseekers, they will say that they'd like to have people who are smart, have leadership qualities, outspoken, work as a team and many others. However, now that I am working, people defending the team, and being outspoken look like somehow unwanted characteristics. So now, they say this person has done quite a damage to the career here by showing all the 'qualities'. Well, why don't they simply mention that 'actually we are looking for dumb yet optimistic candidates' kind of stuff while conducting the interview.

Just make du'a for me that I will ever be the old cheerful self again.

Rgds

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